Belgian psychotherapist specializing in relationships and intimacy in the modern world.
Routine kills desire. But without routine there is no security. Therein lies the tragedy of intimacy.
We seek in one person what we once sought from an entire community. And then we are surprised it is impossible.
Infidelity is never just about sex. It is a search for self, for identity, for one's own story.
When we protect our ego, we destroy relationships. Vulnerability is not weakness; it is courage.
We seek connection, but we create isolation. Technology promises us intimacy, but it delivers loneliness.
Control and love are incompatible. The ability to let go is a sign of deep confidence in a relationship.
You cannot give what you do not have. Working on yourself is working on your relationships.